FOR CHRISTIAN COUPLES WHO FEEL DISCONNECTED, STUCK, OR MORE LIKE ROOMMATES
Rebuild Trust. Restore Intimacy. Find Your Way Back to Each Other.
You still love each other. You still believe in your marriage. But somewhere along the way, the connection changed.
Marriage Makeover is a 6-month biblical coaching experience designed to help Christian couples stop repeating the same painful patterns, grow personally and spiritually, and rebuild a healthier, stronger marriage through the G.R.A.C.E.™ Framework.
You’ll learn how to:
- Rebuild emotional safety and trust.
- Communicate without repeating the same destructive cycle.
- Reconnect emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
- Stop waiting for your spouse to change and begin working on what you can control.
- Put God back at the center of your marriage and build from a stronger foundation.
You don’t need another marriage tip. You need a clear path forward and the support to actually walk it.
You Love Each Other. But Somewhere Along the Way, You Lost Each Other.
Most struggling couples don't lack information.
You've probably already heard that you need to communicate better.
Spend more quality time together.
Forgive.
Go on date nights.
Pray together.
Be more intimate.
And those things matter.
But knowing what to do and becoming the kind of husband and wife who can consistently do it are two very different things.
Because the real problems in a marriage often go deeper than communication.
They show up in the unresolved hurt you carry.
The habits and behaviors you keep repeating.
The expectations you brought into the marriage.
The way you respond when you feel rejected, disrespected, unheard, or unsafe.
The spiritual distance that slowly developed between you and God—and eventually between you and your spouse.
And one of the biggest mistakes couples make is spending all of their energy trying to change the person across from them.
But lasting transformation begins when we allow God to first change the person in the mirror.
Your marriage cannot consistently become healthier while the two people inside of it remain stuck in the same unhealthy patterns.
That's why we believe:
You don't fix the marriage first. You begin by strengthening the people who make up the marriage.
You put God back where He belongs.
You take responsibility for your own growth.
You learn to honor the covenant you've made.
You rebuild the connection that has been damaged.
And you develop the practical skills necessary to create a healthier marriage moving forward.
That's the path we wish someone had shown us years ago.
And it's exactly why we created the G.R.A.C.E.™ Framework.
A Biblical, Practical Roadmap for Rebuilding Your Marriage From the Inside Out.
INTRODUCING THE G.R.A.C.E. FRAMEWORK
A Biblical, Practical Roadmap to Renew Yourself, Rebuild Your Connection, and Create a Marriage That Can Grow Stronger Over Time.
Here's how the G.R.A.C.E. Framework transforms your relationship:
G — GOD FIRST
From spiritual drift → spiritual alignment.
Put God back at the center of your life and marriage so you're no longer trying to rebuild on your own strength.. Matthew 6:33
R — RENEW YOURSELF
From blame → ownership and growth.
Stop focusing exclusively on what your spouse needs to change and start becoming healthier spiritually, emotionally, and personally. Genesis 2:15, Romans 12:2
A — AGREE TO HONOR
From opposition → covenant partnership.
Learn to stop fighting against one another and begin honoring the covenant, valuing each other, and working as a team. Genesis 2:24
C — CONNECT DEEPLY
From distance → emotional, spiritual & physical connection.
Rebuild friendship, communication, trust, affection, intimacy, and the closeness that has slowly disappeared. Genesis 2:23
E — EDUCATE & EQUIP
From repeating old patterns → building new ones.
Develop practical biblical skills and healthy marriage habits so you know what to do when challenges arise. Proverbs 24: 3-4
What Happens When You Start Applying G.R.A.C.E.?
Real couples. Real challenges. Biblical principles put into practice.
From Struggling to Connected Again.
“When we started Marriage Makeover, we were struggling and honestly didn’t know how to fix what was happening in our marriage. We still loved each other, but we felt disconnected, frustrated, and stuck in patterns we didn’t know how to break.
We had tried talking things through and promising that things would change, but eventually we would find ourselves right back in the same place.
Going through the G.R.A.C.E.™ Framework helped us stop focusing only on what the other person needed to change and begin looking at ourselves, our relationship with God, and the patterns we were bringing into our marriage.
The coaching, biblical teaching, practical challenges, and support gave us a clear path forward instead of leaving us to figure everything out on our own.
Today, we communicate differently. We understand each other better. We’re more intentional about our relationship, and most importantly, we feel connected again.
Our marriage isn’t perfect, but now we have the tools, the faith, and the understanding to keep growing together.”
ABOUT THE CREATOR
Dauren and Joan Francis
From brokenness and frustration to a thriving 32-year union, our journey ignited a passion to help couples like you. As certified marriage coaches with 15 years of experience, we've guided hundreds of couples back to God's plan for their marriages.
Our story began in kindergarten as childhood friends. We've known each other all our lives. Childhood sweethearts turned soulmates, we thought love would be enough. However, after three years of marriage, cracks began to appear. Unhealed wounds, childhood trauma, and self-worth issues threatened to tear us apart.
We tried it all: counseling, communication tips, endless date nights, vacations, marriage workshops, retreats, and seminars. Yet we kept falling back into old patterns. That's when we realized: a thriving marriage starts with personal and spiritual growth.
Turning to God, we discovered the missing piece. As we healed individually and spiritually, our marriage flourished. We started to connect emotionally, relationally, and intimately. This revelation gave birth to the G.R.A.C.E. Framework -- the blueprint we've refined over 29 years and now share with couples worldwide.
Let us guide you to the joyful, Christ-centered marriage you've always dreamed of. Your story of redemption and rekindled love starts here.
Your 6-Month Marriage Makeover Roadmap
You Won’t Be Left to Figure Out Your Marriage on Your Own.
For six months, we’ll walk with you through a clear, biblical, and practical process designed to help you grow individually, reconnect as a couple, and build healthier patterns that can continue long after the program ends.
Each month builds on the last—because lasting transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It happens one intentional step at a time.
GOD FIRST
Spiritual Drift → Spiritual Alignment.
Rebuild your foundation by putting God back at the center of your personal life and your marriage. Your spiritual life is the most important part of your life.
RENEW YOURSELF
Blame → Ownership & Growth
Identify the patterns, habits and attitudes you bring into the marriage and begin becoming healthier from the inside out.
AGREE TO HONOR
Opposition → Covenant Partnership
Learn to stop working against each other and begin rebuilding honor, forgiveness, respect and partnership.
CONNECT DEEPLY
Distance → Connection
Rebuild emotional safety, communication, friendship, trust, affection, and intimacy. This is where lasting marriages are built.
EDUCATE & EQUIP
Old Patterns → Healthy Marriage Skills.
Develop practical biblical tools that help you communicate, navigate conflict and build healthier relationship habits.
BUILD IT TO LAST
Temporary Change → Lasting Growth
Bring everything together, measure your progress and create a plan for continuing to strengthen your marriage beyond the program.
Ready to begin your six-month journey?
Everything You Need to Help You Rebuild—All in One Place:
Marriage Makeover Is More Than a Course. It’s Six Months of Teaching, Coaching, Accountability, Community, and Biblical Support.
You won’t simply be given information and expected to figure out the rest on your own. Throughout your six-month journey, you’ll have access to the tools, guidance, encouragement, and community designed to help you learn it, apply it, and live it.
1. THE G.R.A.C.E.™ PRIVATE LESSON LIBRARY
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Get access to practical, biblical video lessons covering the areas that matter most in a healthy marriage—including personal growth, communication, forgiveness, trust, emotional connection, intimacy, conflict, spiritual growth, and more.
Learn at your own pace and return to the lessons whenever you need them.
2. MONTHLY LIVE MARRIAGE COACHING
Once each month, join us live for coaching, teaching, Q&A, and practical guidance around the challenges couples are facing.
You’re not just learning principles—you’ll have opportunities to receive help applying them to real marriage situations.
3. HUSBANDS’ HUDDLE
A dedicated space where husbands can receive biblical encouragement, coaching, accountability, and practical guidance for growing as men, husbands, and spiritual leaders.
Because a stronger marriage requires a husband who is willing to grow too.
4. WIVES’ COACHING & MENTORSHIP WITH JOAN.
Wives receive access to a supportive private environment where Joan provides encouragement, mentorship, practical wisdom, prayer, and guidance for personal and marital growth.
A safe place for wives to be encouraged while becoming healthier, stronger, and more intentional.
5. WEEKLY MARRIAGE MAKEOVER CHALLENGES
Every week, you’ll be challenged to move beyond simply knowing what to do and begin putting what you’re learning into practice.
These practical challenges are designed to help you create healthier habits, better conversations, deeper connection, and consistent growth.
Because information may inspire you—but implementation is what produces change.
6. PRIVATE MARRIAGE GROWTH COMMUNITY
You’ll become part of a private community of Christian couples who are intentionally working on themselves and their marriages.
Inside the community, you’ll receive ongoing encouragement, teaching, discussion prompts, marriage insights, challenges, recommended resources, and opportunities to connect throughout the week.
You don’t have to walk this journey alone.
7. PRAYER, SCRIPTURE & SPIRITUAL GROWTH
We believe God is not an addition to the Marriage Makeover process—He is the foundation of it.
Throughout the program, we pray together, study Scripture, discuss biblical principles, encourage one another in the Word, and continually point couples back to God as the ultimate source of wisdom, strength, healing, and transformation.
8. RECOMMENDED GROWTH RESOURCES.
Throughout your six-month journey, we’ll recommend selected books, teachings, exercises, conversations, and other resources to help you continue growing personally, spiritually, and relationally.
You’ll always have something practical to help you take the next step.
You’re Not Just Getting Content. You’re Getting a Process and a Community to Help You Apply It.
Learn → Apply → Connect → Get Coached → Pray → Grow
For six months, you’ll have a clear path forward and people walking alongside you as you work toward becoming healthier individually and stronger together.
START MY MARRIAGE MAKEOVERREAL COUPLES. REAL MARRIAGES. REAL GROWTH.
What Can Change When You Have the Right Support and a Clear Path Forward?
Hurt had created distance between us, and we didn’t know how to rebuild the trust we had lost.
We learned that healing required more than apologies—it required honesty, consistency, forgiveness, and intentional growth.
Little by little, trust began to return, our connection grew stronger, and we started believing in our marriage again.
We were barely communicating and had started feeling like roommates.
The coaching program helped us stop blaming each other, work on ourselves, and learn how to reconnect deeply. We had to unlearn and relearn many things.
Today we're communicating differently, praying together, and feel like we're finally on the same team again.
Every disagreement seemed to become a battle over who was right and who needed to change.
We began looking at ourselves first, recognizing our patterns, and taking responsibility for how we showed up.
Instead of fighting against each other, we began learning how to communicate and face problems as a team.
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Is Marriage Makeover Right for You?
Marriage Makeover Is For You If...
- You still love your spouse, but you feel disconnected, stuck, or more like roommates.
- You are tired of repeating the same arguments and unhealthy patterns.
- You want a marriage that is built on biblical principles, not just temporary fixes.
- You are willing to look at yourself and take responsibility for your own growth.
- You want practical tools for rebuilding trust, communication, intimacy, and connection.
- You are willing to learn, apply what you learn, and consistently work on your marriage.
- You want coaching, accountability, prayer, community, and support while you grow.
Marriage Makeover May Not Be For You If...
- You are looking for someone to simply fix your spouse.
- You want change, but you are unwilling to examine your own habits, attitudes, and behaviors.
- You are looking for a quick fix without consistent effort or implementation.
- You are not open to a biblical, God-centered approach to marriage.
- You are unwilling to participate, learn, or take practical steps toward growth.
- You expect your marriage to change while everything you are doing stays the same.
You Don’t Have to Have a Perfect Marriage to Begin.
You simply need to be willing to take the next step.
Marriage Makeover is for couples ready to stop waiting for things to magically get better and start intentionally building something healthier, one step at a time.
Your Investment in a Stronger Marriage
Six Months of Coaching, Biblical Guidance, Practical Tools, Accountability, and Community
You’ve already invested years into building a life together.
Marriage Makeover is an opportunity to intentionally invest the next six months in strengthening the people, patterns, and principles that shape your marriage.
Choose the option that works best for your family.
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FLEXIBLE PAYMENT OPTION
6 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF $200
Get started today and spread your investment across your six-month journey.
Total investment: $1,200
Everything Is Included With Either Option
✓ Complete 6-Month G.R.A.C.E.™ Roadmap
✓ Private Biblical & Practical Video Lessons
✓ Monthly Live Marriage Coaching
✓ Husbands’ Huddle Coaching & Support
✓ Wives’ Coaching & Mentorship With Joan
✓ Weekly Marriage Makeover Challenges
✓ Private Christian Marriage Community
✓ Prayer, Scripture Study & Spiritual Encouragement
✓ Recommended Books & Growth Resources
✓ Practical Marriage Tools & Exercises
This Isn’t Just an Investment in a Program.
It’s an intentional investment in the marriage, family, and future you’re building together.
Our 30-Day Peace-of-Mind Guarantee
Start Your Marriage Makeover Journey With Confidence
We want you to feel confident about taking this step.
Join Marriage Makeover, begin going through the program, experience the G.R.A.C.E.™ Framework, and start putting what you’re learning into practice.
If within the first 30 days you decide Marriage Makeover isn’t the right fit for you, simply contact us within the refund period and request a refund.
You have 30 days to experience the program and decide whether it’s right for you.
Your Marriage Is Worth Investing In. We Want You to Feel Confident When You Do.
START MY MARRIAGE MAKEOVERWe Know You Have Questions
Still Wondering If Marriage Makeover Is Right for You?
We understand that investing in your marriage is a significant decision. Here are answers to some of the most common questions couples may have before getting started.
What exactly is Marriage Makeover?
Do both my spouse and I have to participate?
What if my spouse isn’t as committed to changing as I am?
How much time will we need each week?
What if we have serious problems like infidelity or addiction?
What happens during the live coaching sessions?
Is Marriage Makeover Christian marriage counseling?
What if our marriage has experienced serious hurt or broken trust?
Do I have to be a “perfect Christian” to join?
What if we’ve already tried counseling, books, videos, or marriage programs?
What happens after the six months?
What if we join and realize Marriage Makeover isn’t right for us?
Still Have Questions?
Your Marriage Doesn’t Have to Stay Where It Is.
You may have been disconnected for months—or even years.
You may have had conversations that went nowhere, made promises that didn’t last, or wondered whether the closeness you once shared could ever return.
But where your marriage is today doesn’t have to determine where it will be tomorrow.
You don’t need a perfect spouse.
You don’t need a perfect marriage.
And you don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin.
You Just Have to Be Willing to Take the Next Step.
For the next six months, we’ll walk alongside you as you put God first, work on yourself, strengthen your covenant, rebuild your connection, and develop the practical tools necessary to create healthier patterns in your marriage.
You’ve waited long enough hoping things would simply get better.
It’s time to become intentional about building the marriage you both want—and the marriage God designed you to grow in together.
Your Marriage Is Worth the Work.
And You Don’t Have to Do the Work Alone.
Join Marriage Makeover today and begin your six-month G.R.A.C.E.™ journey.
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